Monday, December 22, 2014

Reflect

Christmas is a great time to reflect upon the blessings bestowed upon us. This year there certainly are not a shortage of blessings to be thankful for.

Grace and Kalei continue to light up our world day by day. I asked Cole what a few of his high lights were for the year and he simply said that each day is a high light – and he is right. As many of you know, children grow up way too fast and change by leaps and bounds daily. It has been delightful to watch them progress from babies to toddlers. It kills us not to call them babies anymore – but at heart, they will always be our babies! Lately we have noticed that Grace and Kalie repeat just about everything we say – or at least try to. They play together well, with a few token arguments here and there. They also have learned how to give hugs and kisses. It warms our hearts to see them initiate a hug with each other! They love reading books, especially anything with Elmo in it. In the basement they love their new slide and tunnel, and playing with their baby dolls. Their new game is saying, '1, 2, 3, Go' before running or zooming down the slide! At night time they get a kick out of running in their ‘unnies,’ or diapers, until bath time. This is when the silliness and giggles really come out!





 

Cole is in his eighth year of teaching PE at Indian Hills Jr. High in West Des Moines. The stories he brings home continue to bring humor to my day. He also enjoys coaching 8th grade boys and girls basketball in the winter and 10th grade baseball in the summer. He is an avid Iowa Hawkeye fan, and eagerly has shown his love for the Hawks with the girls. When they see football on TV they get excited and say, "Hawkeyes!"

I continue to stay home with the girls and am loving my new full time position as Mommy. I enjoy subbing once and awhile where I get a quick ‘fix’ of my former life as a teacher. It is a good reminder of what I will see when I re-enter the field down the road. I am also watching my friend, Emily's son this school year. Calvin has brought much joy and fun to our days playing together. The girls giggle with excitement when they get to be with ‘Cawvin and Emmy.’




Another blessing we are eagerly awaiting is the birth of our third child in June; we are thrilled! It is amazing to see God’s hand in our family’s growth. Prior to conceiving, I had my doubts about my body being able to produce a baby with zero assistance – God showed me! The girls will turn two May 22 and the baby’s due date is June 17. It will be fun to see the girls interact with their new brother or sister.

Lord, you are my God;
    I will exalt you and praise your name,
for in perfect faithfulness
    you have done wonderful things,
    things planned long ago.  – Isaiah 25:1

It is comforting to know that The Lord planned all of these wonderful blessings for us long ago, and that He still smiles when they come to fruition in the present time. It is at Christmas that we reflect upon God’s ultimate blessing to us: His son, Jesus.

She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins. Matthew 1:21

May you and yours have a happy and joy filled Christmas!

Love,

Cole, Chelsey, Grace, Kalei, and Baby






Sunday, May 11, 2014

A Mother’s Love

In the past I used to get upset on Mother’s Day, because I was not a mother...yet. Today is the first Mother's Day I get to celebrate with Grace and Kalei! 


I thank The Lord for these children and the blessings they have been to my life. I never knew I could love a little person so much - until I became a mother. It is through the experience of being a mom that I have an even greater love and appreciation for my mom.

A Tribute to Mom,

I giggled in excitement each time I would feel the girls’ kick inside of me - you were just as delighted when I squirmed around inside of you.
For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb. Psalm 119:13

Hearing the girls’ first cries warmed my heart to know they were really here - you also cried tears of joy when I was born.

The instant love I had for the girls - I now understand the unconditional love you had for me from the start.

Waking up at 2:00 AM to crying babies - I know how you selflessly took care of me no matter what the hour was.

Changing diaper, after diaper, after diaper – I imagine you did this with a smile:)

Preparing meals and feeding babies - I remember you always nourished me with good food (you gotta eat:).

The love that I have for Grace and Kalei is like nothing I have ever felt before; it makes me joyful inside and out - this is the kind of love I now realize you have always had for me.

Telling you thank you for everything you selflessly do for me is different now, because I truly understand the kind of selfless love a mother has for her child/ren. It is the closest kind of love I can comprehend as to how much our Father in heaven loves us.
“Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:9-10

Thank you for loving me and for showing me how to love. The light of Jesus shines through you brightly! 
“We love because he first loved us.” 1 John 4:19


I love you Mom!!

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

A New Role


What role are you most comfortable in? Are you a business person? A teacher? An artist? A doctor or nurse? Perhaps you are gifted in many different roles. I have always gravitated towards roles that involve people. For example, I have been a teacher, coach, and counselor thus far in my life. A new role I am learning is being a mother.

Two questions that I often get asked are, “Do you like staying at home?” And, “Do you miss teaching?” The answer to both questions is, “yes.” I absolutely love every second of getting to be with Grace and Kalei; on the flip side, I do miss the interaction with middle school students and adults. I have realized that I am still a teacher; but now my subject matter is feeding babies, changing diapers, napping, playtime, reading time, tummy time, rolling time, sitting time, standing time, bouncing time, and of course, dancing time.








My lesson plans now consist of preparing healthy meals for the girls (and Cole and me), networking with other children who are Grace and Kalei’s age, and organizing my ‘to do list’ in hopes of getting lots accomplished while they are napping! I am grateful for the precious gift of time that I have been given to be with the girls. I am equally grateful for the sacrifices our parents make to come watch the girls so I can get my middle school student and adult interaction ‘fix’ while substitute teachingJ

 A song that sums up my new mommy role, or any role that I am in, is called Let Them See You. My relationship with The Lord is the most important ingredient in my life; and my prayer is that Grace and Kalei would see the love of The Lord through the way that I love them. Ultimately, that is the greatest gift we can give anyone.

 1 John 4:7-12
Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. 10 This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. 11 Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 12 No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.

 Colossians 2:6-7
So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.

Let Them See You by JJ Weeks Band
Take away the melodies
Take away the songs I sing
Take away all the lights
And all the songs You let me write
Does the man I am today
Say the words You need to say?

Let them see You in me
Let them hear You when I speak
Let them feel You when I sing
Let them see You
Just let them see You in me

Who am I without Your grace?
Another smile, another face
Another breath, a grain of sand
Passing quickly through Your hand
I give my life, an offering
Take it all, take everything

Let them see You in me
Let them hear You when I speak
Let them feel You when I sing
Let them see You
Just let them see You in me

With every breath I breathe
I sing a simple melody
But I pray they'll hear more than a song
In me, in me

Let them see You in me
Let them hear You when I speak
Let them feel You when I sing
Let them see You

Let them see You in me
Let them hear You when I speak
Let them feel You when I sing
Let them see You
Just let them see You in me
Just let them see You in me

 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOg-1JjAdGk